“They’re more beautiful than before!” Are you pondering this? Want to get them back? Well, you aren’t alone. The ex often looks more beautiful once you abandon them. Perhaps, it’s a nature’s way to tease you, by showering extraordinary beauty on them, so that you can see what you’ve done. Well, no hard feelings! There is still a chance. If the attraction is in the air, and you want to worship the ground they walk on, just have patience. Since, first you’ve to drop the dead/past mindset, as it’s that thing which, in reality, created a tight spot for you.
When someone is not in your hands, and when you have a feeling that you can lose that person forever, you’re always in a defensive position. In scurry, you perform those actions that jeopardize your position even more, and make you appear as in need more than in love. That’s why, calm your nerves. A person is not something, which you can lose or gain, buy or sell; you’ve to win him/her emotionally and psychologically; you’ve to make things happen in-the-moment; you’ve to play those tracks, which can move them a million times.
Therefore, stop desperate attempts! It’s time to exploit the secrets of the masters of seduction. You’ve to find and work on those areas, which indeed dominate her mind and compel her to consider about you in positive ways. Don’t know about them? Don’t worry. I’ve done the hard work and read numerous books, and interviewed some professional psychologists as well. For that reason, I’m going to present some exceptional secrets today; just follow them with courage, and I assure you, you’ll get your ex back – in a week!
So, ready to rekindle the emotions?
A Surprising Text
Absence, obviously, makes the emotions grow stronger. However, if you would keep it for a long time, it can push the other person’s heart to find someone else. Therefore, a surprising text can keep you in their mind and impel them to ponder only you. Now, you don’t have to speak your emotions, just share something from the past, or the present, which can warm their heart. For instance, “I heard your favorite band is in town; have any plan?” Don’t push; if they reply, then all is good, you can move further, and in case they don’t, it’s better to wait a few more days. Since, any kind of push would alert their suspicion-muscle.
The Point Zero
If you aren’t together, you’re standing on the point zero – always remember that. Usually, in the wrecked relationships, people act like they’re standing on the 60 or 80. Their tones are aggressive; they act like they already own the other person and perceive each tad detail about him/her. And, this attitude often goes against them… Just bear in mind, you aren’t moving in together in a few seconds. The person you’re meeting now is an utterly different person. Yes! You’ve emotional connections, but you’ve to treat them like you’re meeting them for the first time. Hand them respect, and win them as you’re on the first date.
Give a Hint
Sometimes, your ex just requires a hint. According to most men and women, they don’t want to play games, if they’re still burning for their ex. All they need is validation. When you give them a hint that you’re willing to get them back in your life, they think about you in a serious manner, and often respond positively. However, don’t try to bend them, as no one likes to feel that he or she is in a guilty position. Just speak your heart in an immensely subtle way, and let them know that you’re willing to test the waters again. Now, don’t bend yourself, either. Say that face-to-face while keeping a positive smile on your face.
No one is a perfect communicator. People often say what they don’t mean. If he/she denies your proposal, don’t panic. Just keep your head straight, and with a gorgeous smile, tell them that you respect their decision, and you don’t want to force anything on them. This simple statement is more powerful than your imagination. It not only keeps your status high in their eyes, but also impel them to think about your proposal sincerely, when they’re alone. Just remember, decisions can be changed. So, if someone is denying you now, it doesn’t mean he/she is denying you forever. Just let them have a few breaths in isolation.
A Real Confession
We all make mistakes. However, the issue is, we don’t own our mistakes. Especially in a relationship, we blame our significant other in order keep our egos high. And, this thing paralyzes the true blessings. If you think, you’re on a mistake. Don’t hesitate. Just own it. Sometimes, our prides are responsible for our destinies. Therefore, swallow your pride. Ask for her forgiveness, but like a gentleman. Don’t be needy, and don’t beg either. Just a plain sorry is enough to melt your ex boyfriend, or ex girlfriend, heart. Want to go an extra mile? Tell him/her that you’re ready to accept your mistake in public, if that is what they want.
Even the wise monks of the Himalayas are clueless in the matters of love and relationships. Don’t worry, if you see your ex with some other person, and don’t halt your feet either. Just follow these above rules, and you’ll ignite the fire of emotions in his/her heart.
Of course, every issue has its own gravity. In case you feel that the distances between you both are severe, just focus on the solutions rather than squabbling again like the old days. When you’ve a mindset of solving things just like David from this YouTube video, you bend a little, even if you don’t have to, and sort things out. Since, you perceive, once they’re in your arms, you’ve all the opportunities to make them fall in love with you again – madly. And, you’re correct. All days aren’t equal. If today is their day, and they’re depending on their ego, just feed their ego. Tomorrows will be yours, and once again, you’ll be worshiped by them, all day, day-to-day!